Run a Career Conversation with Your Employee

A career conversation is a focused 1:1 about your employee's career development. Instead of status updates, you'll discuss their vision, progress, obstacles, and next steps.


Before the Conversation

Step 1: Ask your employee to set their Career Vision if they haven't already

Step 2: Review their goals, milestones, and progress:

Step 3: Note any areas to discuss:

Step 4: Think about 2–3 questions you want to ask them about their development


During the Conversation

Opening (5 minutes)

Start by asking about their career vision:

This sets context for everything else.

Progress Review (10 minutes)

Walk through their goals:

Use Mentora to show the Roadmap or Goals list.

Obstacles & Support (10 minutes)

Ask what they need:

Next Steps (5 minutes)

End with clarity on what happens next:

Update goals and milestones in Mentora during the call so you both see the changes.


After the Conversation

Step 1: Update any goals or milestones based on your discussion

Step 2: In Mentora, leave a comment on their goals summarizing the conversation:

"Great discussion! We agreed to focus on completing the leadership course (new milestone by Q2) and leading the Q3 project. Let's check in on progress in 2 weeks."

Step 3: Send a summary email with:

Step 4: Schedule the next career conversation (every 4–6 weeks is good)


Tips


Example Conversation Flow

You: "Hey Sarah. Before we jump in, how's your career vision feeling? Still want to become a Tech Lead?"

Sarah: "Yeah, but I've been thinking I might want to focus more on architecture. Maybe move into a principal engineer role instead."

You: "Got it. Let's update your vision. [You both edit it in Mentora] Perfect. Now let's look at your goals. You've got three active — let's talk about each."

[You review goals. One is on track, one is at risk.]

You: "The infrastructure refactor goal is marked at risk. What's happening there?"

Sarah: "I lost two weeks to production issues. I'm catching up, but I'm worried I'll miss the June deadline."

You: "Let's extend the deadline to July — that's more realistic. And I can help you get some team support for the refactor so you're not blocked on production work. Sound good?"

Sarah: "Yes. That would help."

You: [Updates milestone date in Mentora] "Done. Let's check progress next week. Any other obstacles?"

[Continue with other goals...]


Troubleshooting

My employee doesn't have a career vision set

Ask them to set one before the next meeting. If they're stuck, offer to discuss it together in a shorter call.

They're not updating their progress in Mentora

Remind them (nicely) that status updates help you support them better. Offer to help them get comfortable with the tool.

I don't have time for regular conversations

Even 30 minutes every 4 weeks helps. Short, regular conversations beat rare, long ones.

The conversation feels awkward

That's normal. These conversations get easier with practice. Focus on listening and asking questions.